I've realized it's harder to be a grown-up than I thought.
I've realized tonight that in order to do the work of God, I must first learn to be able to handle things of my own without stressing.
I have reminded myself again no matter how much your parents yell at you or say discouraging things to you when problems arise, it is an act that shows they care and love you. Yes, it may not be the best way (and i hope i won't do this to my kids if i have any in the future), but it is their way to show they care.
This accident has given me a great kick start to 2009: learn to be a responsible grown-up.
It's so interesting to see the dilemma in me and my parents.
My parents want me to grow up but at the same time wants to protect me.
Isn't the chemistry of family interesting? sigh.
it's interesting to see how one thing get stirred up then other gets stirred up too.
like now that I'm changing into an adult, my parents are adjusting to having another adult at home.
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Thx for your sharing...it is sure a dilemma to watch our children grows up, but still want to protect them like a little child! That's good since you know your parents love you...you know waht...I didn't know until I became a mother myself. So, Alex is a very special gift from God. How's your recovery after the car accident? Take care and God bless!